Kylie Kelce’s Unfiltered Opinions On Kids’ Birthday Parties

Every week, Kylie Kelce continues to endear herself to moms everywhere with her engaging podcast, Not Gonna Lie with Kylie Kelce. If you’ve tuned in, you know exactly what I mean — her debut episode created quite the buzz, and given the choice, I’m wholeheartedly “Team Kylie.” There’s something about slipping on my earbuds and hearing her voice that brings a smile to my face. She’s relatable, funny, and honestly, I found myself cheering for the Philadelphia Eagles just a bit more after hearing her stories.

One of the standout moments that struck a chord during her podcast was in episode 11, titled *Kylie on Baby Birthday Parties, WAG Stereotypes & Star-Studded Fashion with Kristin Juszczyk*. In this episode, Kylie shared some refreshingly candid thoughts on kids’ birthday celebrations that had me nodding in agreement. She candidly admitted that with three birthdays all coming up in quick succession in her family, the pressure to throw lavish parties can be overwhelming. What really caught my attention, though, was her honest take on the nature of these celebrations. Kylie pointed out that she’s not a big fan of the monumental birthday parties for little ones or the tradition of siblings receiving gifts when it isn’t their special day. And whether you’re on board with her views or not, her insights are definitely worth pondering.

Let’s be real for a second: baby birthday parties are often more for the adults than the kids. Before you decide to remove me from your party list, hear me out! When Kylie mentioned that “any time before the ages of 1 and 2, the birthdays are for the parents,” I couldn’t help but agree. Sure, it’s a big deal when your tiny human turns one because it celebrates not just them, but the sleepless nights and the countless diaper changes you’ve survived as a parent. But honestly, little ones don’t really grasp the concept of birthdays at such a young age. They’re probably more interested in the wrapping paper than the actual gift anyway.

From personal experience, planning my son’s first birthday filled me with a whirlwind of emotions. I felt this overwhelming need to create an unforgettable occasion – the big decorations, colorful themed food, a fancy balloon arch. I wanted the day to feel “right,” but looking back, I realize how quickly it all went by. Despite all the effort I poured into it, I barely had the chance to soak in the joy with my boy. By the end of the day, I was left feeling drained and somewhat defeated, stressing about his nap schedule rather than truly enjoying the celebration. So, yeah, I’m totally with Kylie on this: it feels more like an event for parents than the kids.

Kylie isn’t one to complicate things unnecessarily, either. She humorously points out that while a smash cake looks adorable in photos, the cleanup afterward is a nightmare. Instead, she opts for a simpler approach, giving her kids a manageable slice of cake rather than a whole messy creation. I genuinely love her tradition of letting her kids dictate the cake design. It adds a personal touch without going overboard, making birthdays feel unique and special without the added fuss.

Now, let’s address another hot-button topic: sibling birthdays. As a parent with more than one child, the age-old dilemma of whether or not to give gifts to siblings on another child’s special day comes into play. Some parents opt to include siblings to avoid feelings of exclusion — but Kylie lays down a clear rule: “no one else is receiving a birthday present for another kid’s birthday.” She emphasizes that having individual birthdays builds a sense of recognition for each child, teaching them that just because one may be getting presents, it doesn’t mean the world revolves around them on that day. It’s a lesson in patience and understanding — and one that resonates with parents everywhere.

At the end of the day, celebrating our kids and their milestones is undeniably important, but it’s also completely acceptable to feel that pressure of throwing a grand party isn’t your style. While my oldest had a big first birthday bash, I can confidently say I won’t feel any guilt skipping that for my second child. I’m more than ready for a low-key, enjoyable day without the stress of elaborate preparations.

I find Kylie’s approach refreshing. I cherish the notion of letting my kids dictate their cake design and, who knows, maybe when they’re older I’ll indulge in some nostalgic ‘90s birthday parties. Are pinatas still a thing? I sure miss those!

Navigating parenthood and all its intricacies is tough enough; let’s embrace simplicity in the celebrations that mean the world to our little ones without getting lost in the pressure to make it perfect. After all, it’s about cultivating joyful moments and making memories that truly matter.

Patty Schepel, an editorial assistant at The Everymom, understands this balance well. In her work, she engages with topics that resonate deeply with parents everywhere, just like Kylie does through her podcast. When she’s not working, she’s busy creating her own family memories, training for half marathons (yes, she ran one while 16 weeks pregnant!), and nourishing her love for cooking and rom-coms. Patty embodies the spirit of the modern-day parent, balancing the joys and challenges of raising kids while keeping her humor and warmth forefront.